Hola!
I am Nani Dels, a storyteller, feminist human rights lawyer, and founder of Once Upon a Life.
I was born in Argentina, raised in Paraguay and now I am based in New York City. I lived in 34 homes in seven different countries. Each move has shaped me into a person who embraces change, diversity, and the power of new stories.
I graduated in Human Rights and Humanitarian Law in Spain and the United Kingdom. I have over a decade of experience in the non-profit sector and consultancies. I have worked with various organizations to support refugees, migrants, women, and girls who are survivors of gender-based violence.
“My passion for amplifying marginalized voices stems from my own life experiences and commitment to creating meaningful, lasting change.”
I founded Once Upon a Life in 2024 with the mission of helping others to reconnect with themselves through the joy of playing. We provide a non-judgmental, creative, and safe space where people can relax, have fun, and feel liberated. And more importantly, we invite participants to focus on the “here and now”.
As an adult, I realized I was taking life too seriously, always busy yet feeling unfulfilled. Discovering comfort in being "silly" with myself and with others, I started integrating play into my daily life, tapping into an inherent part of myself. It was always in me!
But the deepest reason behind this project lies in my own story. As a child, I was subjected to abuse and violence at the hands of my own mother. I was kept locked in a dark closet for hours, nearly drowned, and tortured with kitchen tools. There were many moments when I thought it would be my last day on earth. Being the oldest of four children made me realize that I did not want my siblings to experience the same suffering, so I tried to soften the harsh reality for them. I now recognize that I could survive those years of child abuse by dissociating. I remember creating imaginary worlds full of magic, rainbows, and pop music where I could find the safety I did not have at home.
Playing has been crucial in my healing journey. Dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and anxiety, led me to try traditional and body-centered therapies. It helped me develop self love, compassion and feel comfortable in my own skin.
Reconnecting with my inner child inspired me to create "Playshops." A space where I could be free from expectations. A place where there is no right or wrong way to play. Where I can fully connect with my emotions without judgment; and connect with others who are on similar journeys. I am happy that the space I dreamed of became a reality.
Join us in this creative and playful healing journey!